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Sept. 11, 2001: Anniversary of clarity

My parents’ apartment is a time capsule. After my dad’s death in August, my brothers and I started sorting and cleaning out their cherished possessions. When you go through someone’s bedside table, you get a good understanding of what they…

Thank you, Barbie

I saw the movie Barbie when my dad lay dying in hospice. I went because I had promised my daughter, nieces, and sisters-in-law I would join them.   Sitting in The Bay Theater in Suttons Bay at a matinee show, I…

What Would Jesus Say?

The Southern Baptist Convention (SBC), the largest Protestant denomination in the United States, describes itself as a place of “Love. Churches display love of their neighbor, their enemy, their community and God’s people.” Except if you are a female. In…

Sitting in Other People’s Pews

I recently went on a long-awaited holiday. My husband of 30 years, Jay, and I had postponed our anniversary trip to Europe because of COVID. While in London, we attended an evening concert at an Episcopal Church. We arrived early,…